Monday, July 11, 2016

Family

Our schedule had felt full for months but I hadn't really slowed down to think about why until this past week and then I quickly figured out what it was- nearly half of the past 10 months we have spent either staying with family or having family stay with us.  Over the summer we moved in with my sister's family and during the school year the addition of Baye brought Grandma visits, as well as all 5 of our siblings and their families. It's pretty incredible to have family that is willing to take us in for not just a week or two but for an entire summer, and to have so much family that is willing to make the effort to travel thousands of miles to visit. So glad for our families!

Blake, Traever's brother, who lives in South Korea came over Christmas and was able to stay through most of January. The kids loved wrestling and playing with him. The weather wasn't great, (for southern California) but temps climbed into the mid 60's one day and we decided that it was the warmest day we would probably get with Blake so we grabbed the surf and boogie boards and hit the beach. It was cold but the men made the most of it, the kids chased sea gulls, and Baye and I stayed huddled under a pile of beach towels to stay warm.

I'm so glad Blake got the chance to meet Baye. Here's a link of Baye getting to know her Uncle Blake: https://youtu.be/MNhFLkdjm18

It was sweet for the rest of us to get to spend time with him too.


In March my sister, called and said that they were coming and since it was fairly short notice Traever and I decided that we could keep it a secret from our kids. So one Wednesday night in the middle of March the doorbell rang and as usual our kids made a mad dash to answer it, much to their surprise they found 5 of their most favorite people standing right there in front of them. I would post the video from that moment, when our kids opened the door, but unfortunately I'm laughing hysterically throughout the entire video because I could not contain my own excitement... just a little too embarrassing to share here. Anyways, our girls said it was "the best surprise ever!"


Hiking Torrey Pines with 7 kids 6 years old and younger makes for a pretty low key hike. I'm pretty sure we didn't even go a mile.


The below picture cracks me up. Traever pushing a stroller loaded down with 3 kids along a sandy path while herding  another 3 kids ahead of him. I'm not sure what the rest of us adults were doing, but Traever was working it.


Chad took a turn too. I love the snack bag in the face, such a great depiction of parenthood right there :).


Traever made sure the kids got a chance to fly a kite.


I kept finding these two cutie patooties with their hands clasped together. They were so happy to be with each other.


Beach Day





The Herman and Guingrich clans made it to the San Diego Zoo Safari Park.




We had one rainy day, so off to the indoor Discovery Museum we went with our small traveling circus. :)


Traever showing Thatcher how to build a tower. This is what Traever does at the children's museum every, single, time. He will forever be a kid.


A little picnic at the Peacock Farm.


Pool time. I've daydreamed about the kids having their cousins/best buds with them here. Maybe that sounds weird, but it was so fun seeing them splash around and have a ball together at one of our favorite spots.



These two are hilarious together.




Livie learning stunts with Uncle Traever.


Our week with my sister's family flew by. We had an "empty house" for 6 days and then my brother and his family came to stay with us for a week. We were pretty excited to see them.



My sweet little niece Josie at Del Mar Beach.


Our babies getting to know each other.





Most of these pics are from Alex (his pictures are much better quality than mine), the below shots are pretty accurate depictions of what going to the beach with 4 kids looks like... not a lot of relaxation going on :) but it's still a good time. It's been wonderful to live relatively close to a beach these past 3 years. I'm going to miss it!











Pool Time



Thatcher was a bit smitten with his Aunt Brittany.


Thankful to have some quality time with them!


Showing Alex and Brittany the park just beyond our neighborhood.





Our time with Alex and Brittany flew by.


About a week passed since Alex and Brittany left and we received a call that my Grandma Huber passed from this life into the next. A call that we were expecting for quite some time. She lived a very long and full life, battled health issues and dementia. Her soul was ready to leave it's frail body and meet her Savior.
I'm thankful for a husband that was willing to stay back and care for 3 small children for 3 days so that I could fly across the country to be with family and attend the visitation and funeral. I had the chance to see a lot of extended family, some which I hadn't seen for a decade. The reunion of cousins, aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, Mom and Dad was sweet and unleashed hundreds of memories from growing up near each other in the hills of Kentucky, of sitting beside Grandma in church and her offering me leman mints and cough drops, memories of visiting Grandpa and Grandma on the farm, watching Grandma pick a bowl of lettuce from the garden, catching fireflies at night, hayrides, going for walks down their lane in the country, and hymn singings in the barn. However perhaps the most touching moment was not a memory of my own... it was seeing my Grandma's siblings take their last glance at her mortal body and realizing that they had walked, stumbled, ran, crawled, and bounded through some ninety-some years of life by each other's sides running to this end- of seeing their Savior face to face. And by God's grace, by His unwavering faithfulness she was there. No longer sojourning here alongside her family but finally home. So thankful for His faithfulness as well as the incredibly good gift of family.


During my quick trip I got a lot of one-on-one time with our littlest one too. Something that she and I don't get a lot of. I don't think she minded the extra attention.


Traever and the kids survived my absence just fine. I'm pretty sure I missed them more than they missed me. At any rate after 3 days I was ready to hug, squeeze, and smother them all in kisses.





Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Spring Semester

We are now in the thick of our final semester here and summer is quickly approaching! This semester has been a lighter academic load than what Traever has carried in the past so like any non-demanding wife/kids we've taken full advantage and have done our best to grab hold of any extra time that he may have.



Adalai had a few field trips that he was able to join us on. It definitely made my job easier and it was pretty sweet to see the sights with him by our side.



Field trip to Point Loma



Taking a quick break to watch the sail boats in the San Diego bay.



Adalai trying to find little critters in the tide pools with some of her classmates and a bit of blockage by Thatch's head :)



The whole crew.



Field Trip to Sea World.



No trip to Sea World is complete without seeing "Shamu".






Family trip to the San Diego Zoo. It's pretty ironic that we were at one of the world's most diverse and populous zoos and I managed only to get pictures of my kids on fake animals... oh well!






The Daily Grind

Visiting Sea World and San Diego aren't exactly part of our daily routine but life is still plenty full just keeping up with our little crew.

Traever has convinced the kids that working out is fun... we'll see how many years that will last :)


Perhaps the most consistent step of their work out is "show mom the muscles" and of course it's my duty to squeeze each little arm and act as if they have grown each time. Raising healthy kids one pull-up and muscle-squeeze at a time.


The nightly routine...


The kids finally confessed that they actually DO enjoy tickles so... they've been getting a few extra.


Thatcher has a way of persuading his Dad to read one more story.



Updates on the Littles
Baby Baye

She has a doting dad and she knows it.


Hanging out with Dad on campus.




And doting siblings too. She rarely gets a break from these guys. For better or for worse they are by her side.


This picture pretty much sums up being a baby girl with 2 older sisters.




She doesn't seem to mind them though.



There have been a lot of fun little advancements with this little girl since Christmas. Eating, rolling, sitting up, saying "dada", but we are still working on sleeping through the night. That advancement will be very well received. The below picture was taken at 2am.



Baye's first taste of solid food.


It went well.


Her first swim wasn't as well received.


She's such a sweet delightful baby.


With the sweetest, softest, squishiest cheeks that have ever been squished.


Thatcher


Thatcher, our rootin' tootin' cowboy



In January Thatchman turned 3.


Just in case I hadn't posted enough pics of Baye. Baby Baye celebrating Thatch's B-day in appropriate fashion.


Thatcher still loves cars, trucks, and basically anything with wheels. He also loves hoarding and trying to carry as many toys as he can at once. Hence the tower of trucks, which of course came tumbling down just as soon as he tried to transport the pile across the room.


Waving to the garbage man is a weekly event of utmost importance. One of the many little things that delight this little boy's heart.



He still loves that blankie.



And loves food... there's usually a trail of half-eaten apples wherever he goes.


He also loves his older sisters and is pretty lost with out them.


Thatcher also finally got himself a real haircut from Traever after he begrudgingly admitted he was starting to look like a girl. Gone is the California surfer hair and long curls of bygone years. Dad haircuts are the best haircuts- you get a sucker for holding still.

Remy


She's such a lovely and lively little girl. She twirls and skips through grocery aisles, says hello to everyone she passes, she has a great belly laugh, twinkling eyes, and a constant bounce in her step.


She's so very ready to be in school. She sits down and practices handwriting on her own nearly every day.


Loves art.


Loves little critters, bugs, slugs, and snails.


Loves the ocean.



And loves her sisters.





Adalai



In March our sweet Adalai turned 7.



She has grown into such a bright, caring, and gracious girl.

She writes me sweet notes nearly every day. I find little surprises, like this, on my grocery lists and to do lists all the time. Statements that obviously aren't true, haha, but they still give me the warm fuzzies.


She loves trying out new hobbies. She is a true autodidact. She wants to learn how to fly kites, play the piano, tap dance, irish dance, ballet, learn spanish, etc. etc. etc. For a 7 year old she is quite capable.





She loves grabbing a book, and having sleep-overs with her little sis.



She's also started venturing out and playing with the neighborhood kids. We're thankful to have a great little group of neighbor kids!


Me


There are very few quiet moments in this season. I end every day feeling very used, all of my energy has been spent, and that's not a bad thing at all.





Feeling exhaustion just reminds me of my human frailness and that it's God who sustains me. He is good and I know He is faithful to sustain us til the end. So thankful for the past 2 1/2 years of seminary and thankful we have just 2 months to go :).